The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS. It CAN work, to be frank. If you are not old enough to consider marriage, you should be careful about having a serious, exclusive relationship. I had told him that if he hadn't changed jobs, that I wouldn't have left him but that our relationship would probably become irreparable. People respect him more and belittle him less He seems just a little bit happier - which makes a difference at home. If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom.
And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Why would you behave any different now. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. I was going to get engaged to a surgen Indians do go for arranged marriage but my teacher she is married to a doctor asked me if i could manage to sacrifice family time after i get married to a doc.
There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. Then I do my own work I am a recruiter and I work remotely most of the time, which is incredibly convenient for our relationship. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up.
The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. Eternity is a long time. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this. By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. Joanna has written a good answer here.