As Joanne mentioned, should you marry interfaith, you will have lots of help from fellow ward members on converting your spouse. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. I have a better and fuller relationship with God because my own practice has been supplemented by additional observance. I could draw some flip-art of a kiss on some post-it notes and send one a day. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission. And faith and trust.
Mine was in California, back in the 70s. Should I consider giving up my PhD plans, take up whatever job I can based on my commitments or I should look for somebody with whom my profession is more compatible. The thing is I know il always be alone and we'll he's a little older than I am. Anyway, I'm sad and disappointed and I know that it will be my job to keep the marriage together. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. They don't have any time. Given the fact that doctors, esp surgeons, have a very busy life in US, it seems logical. The Mormon university BYU is quickly falling due to these feminists. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face.
Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. A year would have been just fine. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. Mormon girls are raised to believe their worth is how young they marry and how many kids they have. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. They do exist and you deserve that. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much.
I know I am a strong person but it really does suck sometimes. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. He of course had to check his emails while we were on vacation Maybe I have to accept it Maybe that's why so many I know live separate lives I feel each of your words. I worry it will only be worse when the kids grow older. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. Some say, they love wearing it, it gives them "protection from evil". I have been looking for a support group on facebook but couldn't find one so I have created one.