You'll know pretty quick where she stands. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. I don't know what to really do to find time to be with him. It seems she'll expect you to become Mormon. Hey, thanks for the info. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. Women do not get to hold the priesthood and function in an equal role with men.
We are a welcoming community. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying.
If I wasn't such a fighter and survivor I would have given up on this marriage Sitting here in the afternoon, I happened to google 'being a doctors wife' because it's a lonely day and I wanted to see if its hard for others, too. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. Thank you, Liz, for your very kind words and encouragement.
He sees all families being able to stay together. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member.